By Catherine Swaffer, Patient Care Advocate
Jenna came to Thrive Medical Clinic for an ultrasound certain she was pregnant and convinced neither she nor her boyfriend were prepared to care for another child. They had a medical abortion appointment scheduled for the following week.
She shared with me that she and her children live with an abusive boyfriend. Jenna also suffers from major depression and most days can barely get out of bed, much less find a way to leave her boyfriend. After already having had several previous abortions, Jenna seemed very comfortable with this solution to her unexpected new problem.
As the ultrasound started, it became obvious that this baby was much further along than she imagined. Initially, Jenna covered her eyes, tearing up. She was one day short of 14 weeks and the baby was quite active.
The humanity of this well developed baby suddenly caught Jenna’s eye. Suddenly she said, “I can’t do it. I can’t do that to this baby.”
God’s presence is often felt during these patient visits, but especially when vulnerable, broken women come in thinking abortion is the only answer. It’s a profound grace to witness the change of heart that often happens.
After Jenna decided to choose life, she felt that adoption was the best option. She said she could not manage another child right now, but she could consider adoption. Praise God!
Jenna was happy to receive referrals to Christian support groups for pregnant mothers and post-abortion support.
Please pray for Jenna as she navigates the adoption process, pursues healthier relationships and finds healing.
*Patient names and photos are changed to preserve confidentiality